10 Tips To Double Your Business In 2010: Tip 9

Today’s tip is to get face to face as often as possible

If you started on day 1 of the 10 tips then you should be 9 ‘extra’ phone calls into your year.  It may not sound like much, but if you keep it up, I guarantee you that the return will be exponential.

So now that you are getting more comfortable on the phone, it is time to take things one step further and get face to face with people.  In his book “The Answer”, John Assaraf states that people who make over $500,000 a year spend 80% of their time face to face with people. So before you hyperventilate, thinking that you are already over loaded and how on earth are you going to make time for all of the one on one here are some thoughts:

~ Lunches are a great way to get face to face with people, but expand your definition of lunches.  Have people over for dinner, meet some clients for happy  hour, get together with the other Mom’s in your child’s class for a girls night, sponsor a BBQ for the class where the whole family comes and you get to talk to the parents, meet a client for a walk or coffee.  If you are taking your kids to the zoo, send out a note to your clients and friends that also have kids for an impromptu meet up.  Maybe you are involved in a book club or things at school with your kids.  ALL of that counts.

~ Always maximize your time. If you are meeting one client for lunch think about who else you both know and invite them as well.  Now you are having lunch with 2 people instead of just one.

~ Be aware as you go through the day. I had a great time yesterday. The weather was nice so I walked up to school to pick up the boys and ran into one of the other Mom’s who lives close to us so we walked home together and the boys enjoyed an spur of the moment play date and she and I had a great chance to chat.

~ Just remember, you don’t always need to be talking real estate, but you do need to be talking to people.

~ With regards to real estate though, just because you can fax and email documents to your clients doesn’t mean that you should.  Maybe it is a simple addendum in a transaction and it would be easier and faster to just email it to your clients and have them email it back, but take the time to go and meet with them.  They will remember that.  It makes them feel important and like they matter. It also gives them time to ask questions or voice concerns which they would not be doing in an email.  I admit that I used to take the easy road a lot and just send things via email, but once I started getting in front of my clients, transactions started to get much smoother and my clients became raving fans.

So get out there and do it.  Just remember ~ having 1 extra face to face conversation a day with someone can make all of the difference.

Leave a Comment





Signup to receive Nicole's blog posts via email weekly:

Other Posts

It’s Not Just Your Story – It’s Everyone Else’s Too

August 28, 2026

I’ve spent years working on my own limiting beliefs — but I discovered one at the Abraham Hicks workshop last weekend that I had completely missed. Esther, aka Abraham Hicks, has been a leader in mindset, energy, and attraction for decades. My mom actually took my sister and me to a workshop 30 years ago,…

Bet On Yourself VS The Market

August 21, 2026

Last week I shared how the end of August is a weird time – wanting to savor summer, while also shifting back into work mode. Turns out I’m not the only one this happens to! Thank you for all of the notes and feedback. I’ve found that when I’m not taking action, I spend WAY…

I Used To Dread The Last 2 Weeks Of August

August 14, 2026

Thirty years in real estate has taught me a lot of things. One of the best is this: I can finally see my own patterns. Like the one where I get twitchy every year mid-August. Part of me wants summer to stretch on forever. Part of me is itching for routine, order, and the satisfaction…

Beliefs = Actions = Results – It Matters Where You Start

August 7, 2026

August is an interesting month for me. I’m savoring the relaxed pace of summer, while also starting to think about Fall and shifting back into work mode. With a shift in focus I naturally start wondering what will happen. Will I be busy? Where will my clients come from? Will they be buyers or sellers?…

What Do You LOVE About Your Business?

July 24, 2026

I’m back!!! There’s been a lot going on lately, (more on that in a later post) and it’s been a few weeks since I’ve sent you a note. Needless to say, I’ve missed you! I’ve been moving through a lot of ‘life’ lately, and there’s been a common thread in my business that has surprised…

How Do You Want Summer To Feel?

June 19, 2026

Summer is often a season of expectations not meeting reality. I used to think my perfect summer meant iced tea on the patio while reading every day. For the record, that’s never happened. And for a while, I felt bad about it — like I was missing out, like I was doing summer wrong. Until…

You’re Not Behind, There Are Infinite Options

June 12, 2026

Your in box is about to fill up with emails about us being 1/2 through the year. You know – the ones that ask if you’re on track with your goals, and offer a solution to whip you into shape for the next 6 months. If you are having a great year – I celebrate…

Letting Go Of The Hustle Sounds Great, But You’ve Got a Business To Run

May 29, 2026

To be clear, I am 100% for less hustle, more flow, manifesting, receiving, regulating my nervous system, and letting things be easier. But somewhere between: “That sounds amazing” and “I’m a real estate agent – I need to generate clients and sell houses to earn an income” Things can get confusing. Because no matter how…

The Beauty of Not Doing It Alone

May 22, 2026

Thank you for being part of this community! I learned something beautiful and powerful last week. It was vulnerable to post about recalibrating, and being in the messy middle of grieving. Yet the conversations, emails, texts and notes have meant to much. To know that we are not alone is one of the greatest gifts…

Recalibrate In a Business That Runs 24/7

May 15, 2026

It happens to me every year about this time. The need to recalibrate. In a business that can run 24/7 – it’s easy to look up one day and realize, your batteries are drained and there’s no break in sight. Side note – It doesn’t have to be a 24/7 thing, but that’s a topic…