Can I Really Have What I Want?


Seems like a simple question. Of course the reflex answer is yes. I can absolutely have anything I want.

But deep down do you believe it?

I just came back from a few days of business planning with 3 amazing agents. When we get together we go deep. It’s WAY beyond what we want our business numbers to look like and how we plan to get there. We talked a lot about the stories we tell ourselves and what holds us back.

Stories about capacity, relationships, worthiness and so much more.

We all have them to some extent. They can be stories about how we can only receive so much success, or that success in one area in our life might cost us happiness in another (this has been a big one for me in the past). And so we play small or self sabotage in ways we don’t even realize.

And the answer is YES, you can have what you want.

It all comes down to telling a different story.

It requires confidence and bravery, but it is 1000% possible.

The theme of the last 2 months for me has been to realize how important and powerful it is to have a tribe. You can have anything you want. But it’s hard to get there on your own.

You need support. Traditional support like people to help with tasks, but it’s more than that.

You need a tribe, a coach, a mentor, something.

People who hold space for you and believe in the power of your dreams and your ability to accomplish them. Other’s who can see what you can’t.

And so if you focus on one thing in the next few weeks. Focus on your tribe.

2 of my specialties are:

  • Bringing people together to support each other and accomplish their goals (all of the agents in my mastermind from this year renewed for 2024)
  • Leveraging things like mindset and energy to shift HOW you show up to increase your motivation and your results

I’ve got some exiting things launching in 2024 to help with both of these that I can’t wait to share. Stay tuned…

All the best,


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