Why Is It Always Easier For Everyone Else?

Have you ever had that thought?  I must admit, I have.  Whenever I am struggling with something, I invariably look up and see someone else who seems to do it without effort and with ease and think, why can they do it and I can’t?  Sometimes there is a hint of admiration there but, often,…

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3 Ways to Kick Procrastination

How often do you procrastinate?  For me, it’s a daily occurrence!  I get distracted, Facebook beckons…you never know. The reality is that all of us procrastinate at certain points in our lives.  Here are 3 ways I get myself back on track when I’m being spastic and am all over the place: Make a list: …

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Stress is a Choice

A good friend sent this quote to me last week and it made me stop and think:  “Stress is a reaction and, in any situation, we can choose how we want to react.” I have to admit that, from time to time, I catch myself running around like crazy telling myself over and over again how…

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How to Get Your Clients to Work on Your Schedule

Setting boundaries with clients is one of the hardest things for agents to do.  It is a topic that always seems to come up whenever I am teaching a class or coaching with an agent. How do you manage to get it all done so that you are not working endless nights and weekends?  Here…

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Make Sure You Get Some Fun In!

All work and no play makes us all dull, boring and, let’s face it, cranky.  I know that the market is busy right now but it’s still important to take time and re-energize. Whenever someone tells me that and I’m super busy, I look at them like they are crazy.  How could I honestly take…

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Want to be a Better Negotiator? Get a Little Leverage!

Alex, our oldest, got one of those baseball things where the ball is basically on a tether; you spin it around and then practice hitting the ball. (I’m sure there is a technical name for it which is escaping me, but hopefully you know what I’m talking about.)  Anytime he gets something new he is…

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